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I'll have a confession here that will make me sound like an asshole. I used to love to travel, alone. I went, made summary plans or even spontaneous ones, savor
by RealityVoid 8y ago
I'll have a confession here that will make me sound like an asshole. I used to love to travel, alone. I went, made summary plans or even spontaneous ones, savored the place, got lost, walked a lot, got into weird situations, interacted with the locals.
Then I got a girlfriend. I love her, but now I don't like traveling anymore. Now traveling means, plans, finding the _optimal_ place to stay, everything has to be settled beforehand, the housing has to have some standard of decency, now we have _objectives_ and no time for spontaneous whims.
- thecrazyone 8y agoMaybe that's just a different kind of life, I guess?
- pdimitar 8y agoI can definitely hear my wife saying while smiling at you: "Then you don't have the right girlfriend". Let that not sound like me being an asshole. But your true love would follow you everywhere and overcome the hardships of spontaneous travel with you. However, people truly loving each other while having drastically different interests is also an undeniable fact of life. Maybe you should just periodically travel alone, without her?