This is the worse advice I've ever read. It goes against everything I've heard & known from experience. "Doubt and hold back yourself" is perhaps the worst adv

This is the worse advice I've ever read. It goes against everything I've heard & known from experience. "Doubt and hold back yourself" is perhaps the worst advice of it all, the right advice should be "Trust in your gut feeling, and everything will follow." Bad advice does more harm than many other forms of abuse combined, so if you don't want to suffer - don't read this article. An example of good advice would be: http://avalon.law.yale.edu/18th_century/let31.asp http://avalon.law.yale.edu/18th_century/let31.asp