It's sad if it's unwanted. But some of these are stories of people for whom the only sadness is the societal pressure they feel to 'get it over with'. I think

It's sad if it's unwanted. But some of these are stories of people for whom the only sadness is the societal pressure they feel to 'get it over with'. I think waiting (if you can and want to) can be a beautiful thing, and it makes eventual sex both more meaningful and more enjoyable.