> feels out of place in a relatively public setting. I'd rather have a coffee or beer with them if I know them well To follow up on gppong's comment, these are

> feels out of place in a relatively public setting. I'd rather have a coffee or beer with them if I know them well To follow up on gppong's comment, these are often people who don't know anyone well ("lonely or powerless"). So the fact that it's people you don't know well who post things like that is kind of obvious in hindsight.