feels to me like you do not want children bad enough... there are infertile couples out there who have to pay quite a lot of money to get to the position where

feels to me like you do not want children bad enough... there are infertile couples out there who have to pay quite a lot of money to get to the position where you are now (I assume you both guys are fertile) [0] Apart from the examples in the article, I am also judging from my own experience and I personally reached the point where the money simply does not matter compared to the possibility of being a parent. 0 - https://www.self.com/story/the-cost-of-infertility https://www.self.com/story/the-cost-of-infertility Edit: Also agree with others about potential relationship problems you guys may be experiencing