I don't disagree that they are useful, just that they must be carefully considered and applied in situations where appropriate — not treated as a law that appli

I don't disagree that they are useful, just that they must be carefully considered and applied in situations where appropriate — not treated as a law that applies to everybody, all the time. The same thing is true for diets, exercise, self help, etc. Turns out humans are pretty complicated and there is almost never a single solution that works for everyone, all the time.