You can not find the solution on the internet any more than you could fix an ulcer through google. A therapist will have repeated experience with this problem a

You can not find the solution on the internet any more than you could fix an ulcer through google. A therapist will have repeated experience with this problem and it's solutions. One important point they could identify is the cause of the problem. It may be that distress is clouding your reasoning. For example identifying the kids as part of the problem is possibly erroneous. If you want to fix it before making an large but ineffective decision based on possibly miss-interpreted causes, I strongly recommend seeing a therapist rather quickly.