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Are people brilliant because they don't care or do they not care because they are brilliant? Seems to be a little of both...
by nur0n 8y ago
Are people brilliant because they don't care or do they not care because they are brilliant? Seems to be a little of both...
- azhu 8y agoOr perhaps brilliant people care a lot and just have the ability to pull it off so well that everyone else thinks they don't care. The real answer to how to be happy is not to not care how you affect others, it is to master your ability to affect them how you intend to. Those who recommend the "not giving a fuck" approach step on their own bootstraps given how large a fuck they give about not giving a fuck.
- vorpalhex 8y agoNot giving a fuck isn't the same as apathy. Today I spent an hour waiting for some poor chap to repin a simple lock at the hardware store - I didn't give a fuck that he was a bit clueless and flying by the seat of his pants - but if someone scammed me tomorrow I would absolutely jump into action. There are things that don't matter (someone a bit clueless working earnestly) and things that do (scammers, violence, etc). The goal is to differentiate and respond appropriately.
- geezerjay 8y ago> Are people brilliant because they don't care or do they not care because they are brilliant? Seems to be a little of both... IMHO, it's neither. If others want something from you then they pamper you to get what they seek, and the more indispensable you are the more they tolerate. Over time you feel no pressure to adapt your behaviour because those who deal with you feel compelled to adapt to you.