While we all love the same things that excited us earlier in our life we also know what will disappoint us again. Even after 5 minutes I can tell a lot of thing

While we all love the same things that excited us earlier in our life we also know what will disappoint us again. Even after 5 minutes I can tell a lot of things that I won't like in a relationship. The other person is not a blank white board anymore, because the other person is not so different from all the other people I met before. The new stuff is also often just a reiteration of something that has already been there, which means it's not new and not exciting.