It's also not exactly what I was referring to. 1. What's wrong with a relationship that isn't "organic". What does that even mean exactly? 2. Same goes for "ge

It's also not exactly what I was referring to. 1. What's wrong with a relationship that isn't "organic". What does that even mean exactly? 2. Same goes for "genuine". I can see how there's degrees of 'health' to various approach, as well as ethical concerns, but I strongly disagree that the approach should by default or ideally be (primarily) 'organic' and 'romantic'.