I think you are making something like a soft-continuum fallacy. What I'm talking about is picking up girls in destitute poverty situations, in which they'd eith

I think you are making something like a soft-continuum fallacy. What I'm talking about is picking up girls in destitute poverty situations, in which they'd either starve and live in economic insecurity or date you. That is objectionable. It's different than being wealthy and dating someone who is economically secure but perhaps not as wealthy as you. Personally, I think trying to buff your sexual appeal using your wealth is kind of silly, but I understand it happens and I don't judge (in a moral way) people in the latter case I pointed out in the last paragraph.