‘Modern women’ is not a monolithic group and I think you’ll find that there are women who are attracted to lots of aspects of men. The kind of men who tend to

‘Modern women’ is not a monolithic group and I think you’ll find that there are women who are attracted to lots of aspects of men. The kind of men who tend to think women only care about looks only go after women that are conventionally ‘hot’ and guess what, if a woman spends a lot of time taking care of her looks, she’s going to look for men who do the same. If you want women who don’t care about how a man looks, look for women who look like they don’t care about their own looks. It’s not about lowering standards, it’s about finding someone who shares your priorities in life.