I've given up on trying to find happiness and instead, find things to be happy about in things I do. I have an old project I've been working on, on and off. Fi

I've given up on trying to find happiness and instead, find things to be happy about in things I do. I have an old project I've been working on, on and off. Fixing bugs doesn't make me happy; but I asked the client if I could spend some time / billable hours updating some of my old code and they approved; that made me happy. I don't particularly like going for walks, but the girl friend and her son do; spending time with them makes me happy so I go for the walk. Paying bills, cleaning the apartment, doing laundry, doesn't make me happy. But being out of a bad 8 year marriage and on my own (when the girl friend isn't around) makes me happy so I do them, willingly (and they need to get done, lol...) You can find happiness in anything around you that you do; you just need to be willing to find it.</poetic>