> I’m not saying they’re happy with it, but prefer it over self improvement? You can want something yet fail to achieve it, that's fairly obvious, no? Compare:

> I’m not saying they’re happy with it, but prefer it over self improvement? You can want something yet fail to achieve it, that's fairly obvious, no? Compare: fat people who want to be not-fat. Of course, the blatant counter-argument would be that those just don't want it enough; this entire train of thought seems rather damning to me.