I see this as a problem companies need to solve, not individuals. A man intentionally going out of their way to befriend a woman has much more to lose (potenti

I see this as a problem companies need to solve, not individuals. A man intentionally going out of their way to befriend a woman has much more to lose (potentially being considered a “creep” leading to a poor reputation that may spread) than they stand to gain compared to if they tried to befriend another man. But the main reason that can occur is the intentionality of making an “approach” like that. And yes, it will be construed as creepy a significant portion of the time, especially if you are unattractive or have poor social skills - that’s a fact of life. If instead your boss/professor mandated a few small social events to get new hires to meet each other and existing employees one-on-one, there’s no way you can misconstrue getting to know someone as trying to flirt with them. Everybody wins.