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Super insightful, it's like the quote "you don't know what you've got till it's gone". Humans seem to have to feel pain/hit rock bottom before we can go back up
by sthomps 16y ago
Super insightful, it's like the quote "you don't know what you've got till it's gone". Humans seem to have to feel pain/hit rock bottom before we can go back up, instead of visually processing what the future holds in store and proactively changing it. It's an interesting cognitive process.
- jacquesm 16y ago> Humans seem to have to feel pain/hit rock bottom before we can go back up, Hence the value of a difficult childhood. That's only half joking, most of the guys & girls that succeeded rather early in life had some luggage with them.
- nicholasjbs 16y agoIn my experience most people in general have some luggage with them, once you look past the surface. That's not to say all hardship is created equal, of course.
- RyanMcGreal 16y agoI know a woman whose husband died a few years ago, while they were only in in their 50s. They were deeply in love and she feels cheated by his premature passing. When I feel like I'm losing perspective on things, I stop and ask myself: What does she now wish she did more of while her husband was still alive? What does she wish she did less? I find it helps me not to miss opportunities or get caught up in stuff that doesn't really matter.