often fighting over who should be saddled with "The fault" is not useful. [edit] To be clear, this is not about some new age pacifism. Sometimes looking for s

often fighting over who should be saddled with "The fault" is not useful. [edit] To be clear, this is not about some new age pacifism. Sometimes looking for someone to blame is a knee jerk reaction, sometimes placing blame is a calculated manoeuvre. In both cases, often, it is not good strategy to face the "attack" head on.