I think both is true. Taking care while being the wild thing you are, is basically what coming of age is about. The more you know the world beyond your comfort

I think both is true. Taking care while being the wild thing you are, is basically what coming of age is about. The more you know the world beyond your comfort zone, the more unlikely places where they are you can find, too. With age you are also more able to let ambiguities be ambiguities, because you do no longer feel pressed in finding new insights all the time, except when you are.