"safe spaces" Please. Can't we just hire people who are a bit more emotionally mature? We are told that people skills are important for programmers, why not re

"safe spaces" Please. Can't we just hire people who are a bit more emotionally mature? We are told that people skills are important for programmers, why not reward those who have developed them. I know it doesn't come naturally to many people but if you make an effort you can improve. For example a girl I know was terrified of public speaking. She started hosting stand up comedy shows in local bars. Stewing over it on your own doesn't seem like the correct approach to me.