I can at least verify that I had an incredibly bad sleeper for my second child and had she been a good sleeper we would have had a third kid, but after that exp

I can at least verify that I had an incredibly bad sleeper for my second child and had she been a good sleeper we would have had a third kid, but after that experience we’re definitely done. Yes, memories fade, but a kid who wakes up every 30-45 minutes for 24 hours a day for 18 months is something that gets implanted in your bones - you never forget that kind of sleep disruption.