I know you said you're not into sports. FWIW, I've found Ultimate Frisbee to be a very welcoming sport, once you learn that there are actual plays to learn. Re

I know you said you're not into sports. FWIW, I've found Ultimate Frisbee to be a very welcoming sport, once you learn that there are actual plays to learn. Regarding clubs, many areas have outdoors clubs where you join as a member, and can then opt-in to occasional events. They cater to all sorts of people, and the activities range from aggressive weekend-long trips to afternoon day hikes. Essentially, they're social groups optimized for people in your situation. Here are two in SF: http://www.sfoac.com/ http://www.sfoac.com/ http://www.confused.org/ http://www.confused.org/