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Speaking more pragmatically, larger companies are much more family friendly - people guard their personal lives fiercely at large companies. At least, this is m
by jbob2000 9y ago
Speaking more pragmatically, larger companies are much more family friendly - people guard their personal lives fiercely at large companies. At least, this is my experience at an 80,000+ employee company.
You're basically a huge asshole if you book a meeting at 3pm because you'll make all the moms and dads late for picking up their kids. And you can't book any meetings before 10am because more often than not, it's tough to get everyone in earlier because they have to drop their kids off.
Aside from that, new parents are often glued to their phones waiting for updates from whoever is taking care of their children. They are not fully engaged in meetings and I often watch their attention drift to the daycare nanny cam. I have a coworker who receives hourly updates from her mother who is taking care of her young child. Sure enough, every hour there is something that needs to be corrected and thus, a 15 min phone call ensues.
So here I am, a single software developer, who has to wait a week for our sprint planning meeting because everyone else on the team has put up roadblocks that prevent it from happening. I literally will sit here this week doing nothing because of this. This is a regular occurrence.
This isn't a complaint really, I will want these same luxuries when I am a parent, but I can't help but notice that 90% of my team would really rather be elsewhere.
- pbrb 9y agowhat company?
- Ocerge 9y agoI definitely sympathize with this. I mean this in the best way: many large companies are little more than adult daycares. And in many cases, it's a feature, not a bug; it's probably about as close as we can get to some sort of UBI. As long as the company is in the black and nothing too nefarious is going on, it's 100% acceptable for people to come in, put in a Michael-from-Office-Space level of work, and go home. Earlier in my career I found myself in the position where I could hide away for multiple weeks and nobody would notice, for this exact reason. I moved on to a smaller company so I could actually do things, but if I were a parent, I'd make some calls and go right back to that gig.