I'm 46, father of 3, Hard to give generic advice, everyone is different, but just the good ol basics of always making steps (often small ones, but sometimes bi

I'm 46, father of 3, Hard to give generic advice, everyone is different, but just the good ol basics of always making steps (often small ones, but sometimes big) towards the things you want from life, and always be ready to adapt to change, both good and bad. Enjoy your kids, partner, and family. 40s don't really feel much different from any other age I've been. But good time to reconsider any unhealthy habits you have that you always delay doing something about. It's slowly getting more common that people I know of a similar age are getting things like cancer and other problems. Tech is always full of opportunity, keep informed ( you are on HN, so you probably are ), keep learning, experiment. But always maintain strong fundamentals.