Here's a quote from "Happy to Burn" (http://www.surreal.com.au/sankhara/Happy_To_Burn.pdf http://www.surreal.com.au/sankhara/Happy_To_Burn.pdf): The most effec

Here's a quote from "Happy to Burn" (http://www.surreal.com.au/sankhara/Happy_To_Burn.pdf http://www.surreal.com.au/sankhara/Happy_To_Burn.pdf): The most effective way I know of is the giving of ourselves. I don't mean in the passionate sense, but more as a form of empathy, as a spiritual generosity. For instance, try responding to people as if they were your brother or sister instead of a stranger, with candid good will; usually they'll respond in kind. If someone does something you like, tell them - nothing gushy, just let them know in a direct and quietly thankful way. Let someone in a hurry go ahead of you in a queue, let them overtake you when you're driving, thank the bank teller or the shop assistant. All these things are so small, but they all add up, and from each act there will be a corresponding positive effect within you. The giving of yourselves in this way has an immediate and positive effect on the mind/body. Try to be aware of how it feels as you do all of these things. You will feel your whole mind/body loosening up, a feeling of lightness that can't be achieved in any other way.