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I agree. My understand was that both parties have to agree for the website to connect them. I'm not sure what specific site this is, but I wouldn't trust a site

• hrasyid 9y ago
  Your consent, or even you being on the website, isn't needed. If enough of your relatives consented, the stalker can have at least a list of your relatives, and try to guess you from there (as the police did in this case)
  • ehsankia 9y ago
    That's assuming again that my relative accept to share. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the direct result. In this case, the relative of the killer never agreed to share the data with the police.
    • hrasyid 8y ago
      > the relative of the killer never agreed to share the data with the police Not with the police, but they let people who find a related DNA to find them (this is a feature of these websites). Once the police have your DNA, then can find your relatives. You can't control whether your relatives are opted in to this feature or not.