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Start by pretending to be genuinely interested in other people's lives, and their problems. If you pretend this for long enough, you'll find yourself actually f
by projectileboy 19y ago
Start by pretending to be genuinely interested in other people's lives, and their problems. If you pretend this for long enough, you'll find yourself actually feeling that way. And then you'll enjoy being around people, because they'll enjoy being around you.
- staunch 19y agoI'm not sure you have to pretend at all. Try to realize that everyone and everything has a story and that it's often interesting to find out what it is. Some people and things are more interesting than others of course. Learning how to gracefully exit a conversation is step #2.
- projectileboy 19y agoI agree with you - I didn't mean to sound overly cynical. Although I find that I do have to pretend when I'm dealing with people who are initially rude or hostile to me. And I don't always succeed at pretending :-). But I can when I'm at my best. And over time, I can begin to genuinely appreciate their stories, too.
- alarmist 19y agoThe exit is the hardest part - by far.