I have 400ish reputation on stackoverflow Everytime I ask a question I automatically expect it to be downvoted to hell, get marked as duplicate, "dont post you

I have 400ish reputation on stackoverflow Everytime I ask a question I automatically expect it to be downvoted to hell, get marked as duplicate, "dont post your homework", etc. Doesn't really matter how well I try to phrase the question either. You can't please everyone and some of the mods go on powertrips I treat SO simply as a potential place to get feedback and search for answers to issues I am facing. It sometimes comes at a cost of salty responses, downvotes and hostility but the pros outweigh the cons.