> When you use RTFM, you’re saying, “Not only am I not going to help you, but I also want to make sure that you feel ashamed about your inability to help yourse

> When you use RTFM, you’re saying, “Not only am I not going to help you, but I also want to make sure that you feel ashamed about your inability to help yourself.” Maybe. Or perhaps I’m saying “You don’t need me or anyone to give you answers; be empowered to find them on your own.” Or “This question is disrespectful as I know that that if you put forth a little effort in seeking an answer, you’d find one; therefore, you assume your time is more valuable than mine.” Or...