It's definitely an empathy problem. I wouldn't be surprised by an empathy-intelligence correlation but I don't think it's relevant here anyway; You don't have

It's definitely an empathy problem. I wouldn't be surprised by an empathy-intelligence correlation but I don't think it's relevant here anyway; You don't have to be intellectually driven if you're not emotionally driven. I think this highlights the concerns from "unemotional" types: >One should plan for irrationality. When we say that, what are we inviting them to do exactly? I think we're asking them to be more forgiving and less judgmental when people act irresponsibly. People who aren't emotionally driven don't see the intrinsic value in that. We're asking them to do something they'd rather not do, and the typical unemotional person would decline the request.