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As a vet who knows a couple of guys who've suffered injuries to their genitals I'm really happy to hear this news. There's a huge stigma around not having a dic
by leroy_masochist 9y ago
As a vet who knows a couple of guys who've suffered injuries to their genitals I'm really happy to hear this news. There's a huge stigma around not having a dick anymore and I can acutely remember thinking, before stepping out on patrol, that I'd rather die than have that happen to me.
Hopefully this is just one step in a larger journey toward being able to replace damaged/destroyed genitalia with functioning replacements (ie re-growing new appendages using stem cells and patient DNA, etc).
- nylonstrung 9y agoI've read the suicide rate among vets with genital injuries is over 25%. Tragic.
- cat199 9y agoNot to downplay the vast significance of such an injury, but seems to me the far greater tragedy is that our society/culture places so much emphasis on sexual function that a 25% rate of suicide in such cases 'makes sense'. There's a lot more to life than sex - this is basically saying that 1 in 4 males don't think the rest of it is worthwhile otherwise..
- merpnderp 9y agoIs it society and culture or the single most important biological imperative our DNA can express, something hardwired into the parts of our brains older than life on land?
- textor 9y agoCertainly it isn't hardwired in any relevant manner, and people are in fact just fine not reproducing, see vasectomy. Don't just repeat platitudes. People are killing themselves over not being able to have sex, or rather not being able to prove they're proper functional men. It has at least as much to do with social status as with actual sex.
- merpnderp 9y agoKnowing you aren't held in respect by your peers doesn't cause depression because of culture or society - every single living organism with some sort of higher brain function gets "depressed" when its peers hold it as less valuable. This isn't platitudes, this is science, and shows the solution likely isn't down the path of telling people 'losing your junk" jokes are harmful. Choosing to not have kids are far different than having that choice taken from you, and the most viable solution is likely chemical intervention.
- philwelch 9y agoPeople aren’t just formless masses of pure reason floating through the world. We’re animals, and one of the most primal drives is to reproduce. That’s not society and culture that says sex is that big of a deal; it’s billions of years of evolution.
- zzzzzzzza 9y agoFor the record I agree with you (in contrast to some of these other commenters); sex is criminally over rated. There's a reason why we have a distinction between people and animals guys (though even many animals can live a eudaimonic existence without sex, see neutered dogs).
- throwajay81763 9y ago“sex is criminally overrated” is certainly a statement borne of the sort of careful, even-handed consideration i would expect from someone asserting people aren’t animals
- ralusek 9y agoEven at an academic level, far too many people feel entitled to attribute absolutely every human outcome to society and culture. Not only do we have philosophical, logical, and biological contributors affecting this, but "society" and "culture" can have logical and biological components as well. From a purely philosophical standpoint, what if I had come to the conclusion that a part of myself would live on through my children, and I am in despair at the lost opportunity to do do so? From a biological standpoint, I have lost access to one of life's greatest pleasures, but am also subject to the same physical drives without any release. Now to expand that to "society," what fault is it of a partner who similarly has a philosophical drive towards procreation, or a biological desire for certain pleasure? Some things just are blamelessly tragic, I'm sorry to let you know.
- collyw 9y agoOut of interest whats the normal rate for vets? I imagine it could be relatively high as you hear a lot about PTSD.
- w0m 9y agoI read this comment as, 'Why would a veterinarian have a relevant anecdotes to.. ooooooh'. Thank you for your service sir, you are a braver soul than I.
- Rebelgecko 9y agoThe NYTimes article (https://nytimes.com/2018/04/23/health/soldier-penis-transplant-ied.html https://nytimes.com/2018/04/23/health/soldier-penis-transpla...) adds a lot of context that this press release didn't go into. Along the lines of what you're saying: He felt isolated, even in the hospital among other wounded soldiers. “There were times you’d be hanging out and guys would be talking about getting hurt, and that’s one of the first things when they get blown up, to check down there, and they would say things like, ‘If I lost mine I’d just kill myself,’” he said. “And I’m sitting there. They didn’t know, and I know they didn’t mean any offense, but it kind of hits you in the gut.” He struggled with thoughts of suicide, he said: “When I would actually think about killing myself, I would think, ‘Am I really just gonna kill myself over a penis?’”