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To seek prestige runs far deeper in our minds than one would think. It comes from a place of uncertainty and fear. There is an interesting theory called "socia
by mrleiter 9y ago
To seek prestige runs far deeper in our minds than one would think. It comes from a place of uncertainty and fear.
There is an interesting theory called "social comparison" [1], which states that one way to define ourselves is to compare us with our peers, either upward or downward. It's pretty on point in my personal opinion, because I do it as well. And when I have mentioned this theory while chatting with friends, they confirmed that they do it, too.
We humans are brittle creatures that pretend to be very strong and independent in order to survive and not be vulnerable.
[1] https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/social-comparison-theory https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/social-comparison-...
- ivanhoe 9y agoExactly, and it's because we, as all animals that live in groups, have a strong sense of hierarchy inside the group and our place within it. Position inside the group is a primary unit of one's perceived "value".
- 20171026 9y agohttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominance_hierarchy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominance_hierarchy