The point is once you have to point your finger at someone and say you are racist or you are sexist. You will most likely be wrong in ways that matter and only

The point is once you have to point your finger at someone and say you are racist or you are sexist. You will most likely be wrong in ways that matter and only in ways that doesn't really matter (we are all racist, sexist etc). And yes it's outlandish to say that in any way that matters. Sure you can say that someone who might be deeply religious. But its much harder once you get into the normal modern westerners mindset. I have seen my share of people being accused of things they weren't. That's were it's really dangerous especially the way you continue to talk about it as if you know when it's sexism or racism etc. Again hate crimes aren't that easy to ascribe to someone either. I am pretty sure you and I would disagree on many of these matters. I am not mixing anything at all, what I am saying is that very few people are those things in any way that matter. I am adressing it directly. You say that if more people have empathy button you would press it because that would make the world a better place. So yes you are indeed doing exactly that. No one is saying we shouldn't do it just that the way you speak of it scares me because you sound so certain you can differentiate.