> the source of the problem is your upbringing, Ok, so it's no fault of your own and you need a crutch, by your own reasoning. > and by proxy the culture. Th

> the source of the problem is your upbringing, Ok, so it's no fault of your own and you need a crutch, by your own reasoning. > and by proxy the culture. That doesn't follow at all. Lots of people remove themselves from their native culture, which is often toxic and sometimes benign.