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> I tend to view it as a mark of immaturity. Is it? In my experience people, especially men, get worse when they get older. Especially between 45 and 70 this s
by tluyben2 9y ago
> I tend to view it as a mark of immaturity.
Is it? In my experience people, especially men, get worse when they get older. Especially between 45 and 70 this seems to be strong; they are (always) right and winning the acknowledgement of that being right is more important than anything else. Even if it destroys companies, money, respect for them or people in the process of winning, completely and irrationally ignoring the goal of the discussion/argument.
Still might be immature, but then what is that exactly? I know people from all walks of life who have this issue. Maybe almost no-one grows up?
- DoreenMichele 9y agoParadoxically, emotional growth is held back by one's strengths, not their weaknesses. Lots of bright students have zero patience and have never learned how to cope with failure. Perhaps typically privileged people, as many men are, don't deal well with things like their growing physical frailty as they age and react to that by refusing to acknowledge any weaknesses in other areas, such as their knowledge base or logic.
- vorhuts 9y agoI love how you make this a gendered issue. Well done, identity politician.
- DoreenMichele 9y agoI didn't make it a gendered issue. I was replying to a statement by someone else who characterized older men as especially frequently guilty of this. I simply tried to provide a plausible explanation for their observation based on my understanding of how life works.
- rkhassen9 9y agoAgreed: “that almost no-one grows up.” And is “immature”. Just because that has become the norm doesn’t mean we shouldn’t call a spade a spade. How else can we collectively, as a culture, identify where we lack and then to choose to grow?