God same for me. I read this post and thought I had written it myself. I'm a very pleasant person to work with, I will never belittle others or be harsh about a

God same for me. I read this post and thought I had written it myself. I'm a very pleasant person to work with, I will never belittle others or be harsh about anyone as a person. I will absolutely say when code/architecture/system is poorly designed, and I will say why. This should be a good thing in our industry, but unfortunately it's not. If a civil engineer came to a team building a bridge and noticed everyone was building something dangerous, he MUST say something or people will die. Imagine a world where the rest of the team poo poo's him for "not getting along."