No kidding. As someone who has a good bit of difficulty with social interaction (no diagnosis, but it overlaps with issues that ASD and ADHD people often report

No kidding. As someone who has a good bit of difficulty with social interaction (no diagnosis, but it overlaps with issues that ASD and ADHD people often report), I've failed a likability check or two in my time. I've had conversations where someone seems to be offended or otherwise put off and I have no idea why. But even having those problems, I don't discount other people's opinions and priorities so much that I'd just go in and refactor an existing system without first being pretty clear on who's responsible for it, what problems I'd be solving and risks I'd be creating for them, and that they're okay with it.