100% agree, through the years I've learned that, as you said, it might be impossible to change and what has helped me is to stand in the shoes of the other pers

100% agree, through the years I've learned that, as you said, it might be impossible to change and what has helped me is to stand in the shoes of the other person knowing how much they've invested. Related: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_cost https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_cost