Find out your strengths and focus on developing those, and just be good enough on your weaknesses. When I first became a programmer I was obsessed with clean c

Find out your strengths and focus on developing those, and just be good enough on your weaknesses. When I first became a programmer I was obsessed with clean code and architecture principles but would lose every debate about it with my co-workers, and always end up rewriting my code to match some principle someone follows. This would happen at every job and became very stressful and unpleasant. Now I have accepted that I will never be a first class code architect and although I am very secure in my developer skills, I don't really get involved in coding debates. I am content to let other people do the architecting and just tell me what to do, and much happier for it. I found other strengths I have on the job.