I had the same urge. I had been an introverted hacker all through high school, and when I went to college wanted a change. So I joined a fraternity. It didn't

I had the same urge. I had been an introverted hacker all through high school, and when I went to college wanted a change. So I joined a fraternity. It didn't work out. The frat guys were cool, but they did stuff you would expect frat guys to do. And after a few weeks of it, I got really really bored. The parties were somewhat fun but only for the drinking. Not a lot of interesting conversation to be had. After a month, I bailed and switched over to the dorms. Can tell you I was much happier there, hanging with people who I had something in common with.