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Own the geekiness. Being comfortable and confident with who you are is the most important thing in life IMO, and other people gravitate towards people that are
by augiehill 16y ago
Own the geekiness.
Being comfortable and confident with who you are is the most important thing in life IMO, and other people gravitate towards people that are confident.
You can't fundamentally change who you are... it just doesn't happen, but you can grow gradually through your experiences, so I say take full ownership of who you are and don't force yourself into super uncomfortable situations. I say try it out, but be prepared to drop it if you find that it's just not for you.
- JoeAltmaier 16y agoDisagree. I decided in college to quit being the shy farm kid. Worked out great. Its just a matter of practice.
- augiehill 16y agoI should elaborate. I think he should work on being more social, but not necessarily social like the guys in the frats. Don't do what they do... be outgoing in your own way and be true to yourself. Wear those Magic: The Gathering t-shirts if that's what you love and you're guaranteed to find people that share your interests and who you will enjoy the company of more.
- JoeAltmaier 16y agoDr Who TShirts!