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I don't have kids, but there are three things I really wish my parents had done: 1) Require that I take piano / guitar lessons for at least a few years. I know
by Jemaclus 9y ago
I don't have kids, but there are three things I really wish my parents had done:
1) Require that I take piano / guitar lessons for at least a few years. I know I'd hate it as a kid, but as an adult, the ability to read music and create music is magical to me. I wish I'd learned. (I've been "playing" guitar for 20 years, but I'm _terrible_ at it and not likely to get much better.)
2) Make exercise a family activity. I've been running for about 7 years now, and I'm healthier, stronger, happier, and more confident than I've ever been in my life before. I see my parents aging and getting older and fatter and having more and more health problems, and I wish that had been something we'd started off with a whole lot earlier.
3) Teach me a second (or third!) language. I took four years of Spanish in high school, and I can sorta-kinda-not-really read and speak Spanish, but I wish I were fully fluent in Spanish as an adult.
I'm fortunate in that I had a great childhood and great parents, and I wouldn't change much of anything else. But those three are things that stick with you for life, and as a bonus, they're things you learn better, faster, and more easily as a child.
If I have kids, I'm going to be doing all three of those.
- pedrohidalgo 9y agoI'd like to know why did you choose Spanish over other languages. Can you tell me?
- Jemaclus 9y agoWell, at my high school the only choices were Spanish and French. I grew up in the South. There aren't a lot of Francophiles there. I figured Spanish was a more useful language (and it turns out, I like it a lot). I did wind up taking a semester of French in college, but I hated it.