I have some words of caution ... Whatever it is you do or don't do, you'll first need to get buy-in from your spouse. E.g. "daily routines" are harder to imple

I have some words of caution ... Whatever it is you do or don't do, you'll first need to get buy-in from your spouse. E.g. "daily routines" are harder to implement if they're important to you but not your spouse. It's difficult enough to deal with kids, when you're also dealing with an indifferent or opposed spouse, well ... good luck with that!