I've met women who are similar to what you describe. Mostly religious women who were really into church from their childhood. Some were even in CS. The ones I m

I've met women who are similar to what you describe. Mostly religious women who were really into church from their childhood. Some were even in CS. The ones I met weren't really asexual. More like, they simply don't feel comfortable talking about sexual things with others who aren't part of their close friends circle, and even then. Their lack of outgoing-like attitudes definitely constitutes to less dating but not in a way that prevents them from dating at all.