I would assume that a failed marriage is one of life's most financially and emotionally destructive events. So unless you are willing to put in the work that a

I would assume that a failed marriage is one of life's most financially and emotionally destructive events. So unless you are willing to put in the work that a healthy relationship requires, then it is certainly not passive. If you include kids in the mix, then, yes, much more expensive and the toll of a failed marriage much more significant.