It is been studied: communes in Israel, child care in Russia, orphanages in Romania... it turns out that you can't usefully pay people to love children. Mothers

It is been studied: communes in Israel, child care in Russia, orphanages in Romania... it turns out that you can't usefully pay people to love children. Mothers will do things for children that paid workers will not do. If that could work, then the children would love their paid caregivers, and the family ceases to exist. Human relationships require time, and this time can not be scheduled. One must be there for the bruises and scratches.