I'm not condoning it. Just explaining it. It's culture. In China, you are your family/clan and your family is you. Family in China does not refer to just your

I'm not condoning it. Just explaining it. It's culture. In China, you are your family/clan and your family is you. Family in China does not refer to just your immediate, but rather your entire family including 2nd cousins. Individualism isn't as strong there. Why? Due to China's society being 'low trust', you need to rely on your family to survive and thrive.