I've yet to meet a single person* with kids who actually, unironically, says things like "your just have to spend time with your kids, duh" * The few I have me

I've yet to meet a single person* with kids who actually, unironically, says things like "your just have to spend time with your kids, duh" * The few I have met who say these things have full-time live-in nannies so they're not exactly models of "spending time with their kids" either...