What I'm trying to say is that we accentuate things that aren't normal - especially negative things - they stand out in our mind. Go into a coffee shop or some

What I'm trying to say is that we accentuate things that aren't normal - especially negative things - they stand out in our mind. Go into a coffee shop or something, and just sit there for an hour, and watch the interactions. (I've done this several times - people watching is always interesting.) For any person with a 'sense of entitlement', many, many more go by without a hassle. Another possible reason that obnoxious people stand out is because they take up much more time than the quiet people that quickly shuffle by.