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so when you forgive someone you never forget? Sure you list some good examples to remember but there are far more reasons to forget. To remember should be meani
by algem 9y ago
so when you forgive someone you never forget? Sure you list some good examples to remember but there are far more reasons to forget. To remember should be meaningful. Should anything other people believe to be bad always be remembered of you? If this was the case everyone would hate everyone.
- closeparen 9y agoReputation is the foundation of trust. If you can’t use the presence of absence of deragatory records as a signal, you need to be much more conservative in your dealings with people and create upfront constraints, since retroactive accountability isn’t an option.
- landryraccoon 9y ago> when you forgive someone you never forget? I'm sorry, are you arguing that not forgiving governments, elected officials, and people in positions of power and authority (or those seeking such power) is a problem in our society? Like, the US, the country that elected Trump, is having a problem with forgiving/forgetting past transgressions? > but there are far more reasons to forget. If there are that many, why didn't you name them? > If this was the case everyone would hate everyone. Hate isn't the issue. We're talking about real world problems with consequences. Evil doesn't just go away because you forgive it, people who are harmed are still harmed, and costs incurred need to be paid. If you just forgive and forget naively, that means the people who are hurt just keep paying, over and over. And the people who take advantage of it just keep winning forever.
- _rpd 9y agoPerhaps those who wish to be 'forgotten' should obtain permission from those that they have injured.