So pleasure should only be for the wealthy? I know that this may sound strange, and I don't share this trait myself, but for many people sex is a critical part

So pleasure should only be for the wealthy? I know that this may sound strange, and I don't share this trait myself, but for many people sex is a critical part of forming a romantic bond with their partner. Without sex, they feel unloved and invalidated in the relationship. That's just part of their emotional needs. So for some people sex is indeed a psychological need.